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Why Should You Join Aging Out Institute?
11.12.18 by Lynn Tonini

AOI will begin its membership model starting January 1st. If you submit a request to join between now and December 31st, you will be able to join for our “early bird” price for the first year of membership! Anyone who works with older foster youth or former foster youth should definitely consider joining as AOI is going to be the largest forum for people all over the United States (and other countries where they face the same challenges) to share their strategies for helping youth prepare for and manage the transition into independence. Go to to sign up and to see all the other organizations that will be members in 2019. In the meantime, below is more information about membership:


VCCS Great Expectations Program Posts about 2018 Award from AOI
09.22.18 by Lynn Tonini

To read the article posted about the VCCS Great Expectations award on the Virginia Community Colleges website, click

Six Organizations Win Awards in the 2018 AOI National Awards Program!
07.25.18 by Lynn Tonini

[July 25, 2018] As part of the first annual awards program recognizing organizations for the excellent work they do helping youth transition from foster care to adulthood, six organizations have been named winners in the 2018 Aging Out Institute National Awards competition for its effective strategies helping youth successfully transition to adulthood when they age out of foster care.

The Aging Out Institute (AOI) National Awards Program celebrates the positive impact and influence of nonprofits, government agencies, and social enterprise organizations that work with youth who age out of foster care. In its inaugural year, this awards program will begin identifying and sharing the award winners’ best practices with foster care professionals throughout the world.

“Winning an AOI National Award is a significant accomplishment. With peer judges and tough judging criteria, only the most deserving programs receive recognition,” said Lynn Tonini, Founder and Owner of Aging Out Institute. “The programs that won awards this year were outstanding. We can’t wait to publish the white papers that will describe the award winning strategies for everyone in the foster care field to read, learn from, and even apply in their own organizations.”

This year’s panel of judges included experts and practitioners in the field of foster care and represented the following states: California, Georgia, Michigan, Pennsylvania, Texas, and Washington, D.C.

Entries in four major categories (Education, Employment, Housing, and Relationships) are judged against a stringent set of standards based on research findings. During the judging process, the panel of judges compare the organization’s strategies with those that have been identified in research to be effective helping foster youth transition to independence without a family support system. They also look for innovative and creative concepts, strong execution and program structure, outcome metrics, and the ability to communicate and persuade.

This first year of the AOI National Awards Program applicants included organizations from several different states. After careful consideration, the judges selected the following organizations as the winners of the 2018 National Awards Program (by category):

Education: Great Expectations Program – Virginia

Employment: Sunrise Children’s Services / VentureON Program – Kentucky

Housing: CitySquare / Transition Resource Action Center (TRAC) – Texas

Relationships: UC Riverside Guardian Scholars Program – California

Relationships: Foster Forward / Real Connections Program – Rhode Island

Holistic Services: Roots & Wings – New Jersey

“It is an incredible honor to have our Real Connections Program recognized by the Aging Out Institute (AOI) National Awards Program for our work helping youth in foster care build positive relationships with adult mentors,” said Lisa Guillette, Foster Forward’s Executive Director.  “We are proud that many of our mentors become life-long connections for their mentees and some have become foster and adoptive parents for youth with whom they were matched!”  

Emily Marchese, Executive Director of Roots & Wings, said, “Roots & Wings is honored to be recognized by the Aging Out Institute for its unique and holistic services for aged out foster youth. This award is a great distinction and furthers our ability to share best practices and lessons learned with others serving this population.”

Aging Out Institute is a social enterprise dedicated to connecting the dedicated professionals who work with foster youth with resources and strategies that help youth age out of foster care and into adulthood successfully. Annually, it conducts its AOI National Awards Program and publishes the AOI Higher Education Foster Youth Programs Review. Additional information about Aging Out Institute, its awards program, and membership information can be found on the AOI website at An overview of all the award winners can be found at

: @agingoutinst

NOTE: Click here to find out more information about the award winners. 

AOI Higher Education Foster Youth Programs 2018 Review
05.06.18 by Lynn Tonini

AOI is pleased to share its first annual review of higher education foster youth programs across the U.S.!

These are programs that higher education institutions support that have a set of services specifically dedicated to helping foster youth or former foster youth apply to college and succeed in their academic endeavors. We reviewed the websites of 102 colleges, universities, and community colleges that have this kind of program, looking for and recording the services that are listed on the programs’ pages. The report that we developed identifies the types of services that we uncovered and the percentage of schools that offer each one. We also make recommendations throughout the paper based on our findings. We are hopeful that this information will encourage the development of such programs and the expansion of existing programs. We have also found opportunities for improvement in how the programs’ services are communicated on their websites.

To download the report, simply click on the image of the report cover.

If you represent a higher education institution that has a foster youth program – or does not – and you would like to participate in our 2019 survey, please fill out the contact form below.  We will send you a link to the survey in the first quarter of 2019.


Age Out Angels Interview
05.06.18 by Lynn Tonini

On April 30th, Greg Rapport from Age Out Angels interviewed me on his radios show. You can watch the entire interview here.  (Please note that the interview format is call-in, so you will only see Greg on the video, but you’ll hear Lynn’s interview starting at 20:28.)  Greg asked me questions about my own experiences in foster care, how the idea of Aging Out Institute got started, and some of the activities that AOI has launched or will launch in the future.

Age Out Angels is also dedicated to helping youth transition out of foster care and into adulthood successfully.  You can find out more about Greg’s organization at

12.01.17 by Lynn Tonini


Lynn Tonini, M.Ed., CPLP

Aging Out Institute Announces Call for Entries for 2018 National Aging Out Institute Awards

Inaugural National Awards Program Will Honor Leaders in Field and Recognize Effective Strategies in Helping Foster Youth Transition to Adulthood

Harrisburg, PA, December 1, 2017: The Aging Out Institute (AOI) invites foster caregivers and organizations throughout the United States to submit entries for the inaugural 2018 National Aging Out Institute Awards, which will honor those who are supporting foster youth age out of foster care and into independence successfully.

Applications and instructions are available at beginning January 1, 2018. All award applications must be submitted by February 28, 2018 at 11:59 PM EST.

AOI will give out awards in four categories:
• Education
Preparing youth to complete their education before aging out
Supporting youth after they age out by helping them complete their education
• Employment
Preparing youth to find steady employment before aging out
Supporting youth after they age out by helping them find steady employment
• Housing
Preparing youth to acquire reliable housing before aging out
Supporting youth after they age out by helping them acquire reliable housing
• Relationships
Preparing youth to build relationships with supportive adults before aging out
Supporting youth after they age out by helping them build relationships with supportive adults

There will also be two optional awards, the Aging Out Innovation Award and the Integrated Aging Out Strategies Award, that may be given out based on the merits of the applicants for the categories listed above. These awards cannot be applied for directly.

A panel of eight judges will select the winners, which will be announced in August 2018.

More information on categories can be found at

Broadening the Impact of the Awards
In addition to recognizing the tremendous contributions of foster caregivers and organizations, AOI hopes the awards program will be a catalyst to identify and share effective and innovative strategies with others in the foster care community.

“I want to use the awards program to get down to ground level and find out exactly what is being done on a day-to-day basis to help foster youth age out successfully,” said Lynn Tonini, M.Ed., former foster youth and founder of AOI. “Foster caregivers and organizations play a critical role in ensuring that youth can succeed after they leave foster care. If certain strategies are working for the winning foster parents and organizations, then they could work for others in the foster care community, too.”

The strategies identified through the application process will be written as white papers and distributed to the foster care community by early 2019.

About the Aging Out Institute
Started in 2010, the Aging Out Institute is dedicated to improving national outcomes for youth aging out of care by promoting resources and strategies to help youth age out of foster care and into adulthood successfully. For more information, visit

To support the launch of the AOI awards program, you can give a donation in December, 2018, by going to the fundraising campaign at


Extra Fundraising Information:

Help the Aging Out Institute (AOI) share the most effective strategies for supporting foster youth as the age out. Through the inaugural 2018 National Aging Out Institute Awards, AOI will recognize foster caregivers and organizations and the strategies they are using to ensure that foster youth transition to adulthood successfully.

After identifying winners, AOI will hire a writer to develop white papers to describe the strategies being used to support foster youth. They will be made available to the foster care community, with the goal of spreading these approaches and improving outcomes for foster youth.

AOI needs your support to fund the writer, with a fundraising goal of $7,000. Please make a donation by going to Your gift will allow us to impact even more lives by sharing the award winning strategies to ensure that foster youth age out successfully with foster care professionals everywhere.

Statistics about Aging Out – A Compilation
11.22.17 by Lynn Tonini

After looking around the Internet for statistics regarding aging out of foster care, I realized that it is very difficult! You find statistics that vary widely from site to site, and many sites do not cite the sources where they are getting their numbers. I realized that it would be very helpful if someone would compile the key statistics that people reference so that others can find them more easily…so I have started that work.  Below is the initial list. It is not a definitive list, but includes sources that a lot of people do reference. We will continue to add to it over the years. For now, I will add these numbers to the AOI page titled “What is Aging Out?” and will update them as statistics are added.

2017 Aging Out Research Compilation 20171122

Foster Focus Magazine Article about AOI
10.02.17 by Lynn Tonini

Aging Out Institute was one of the feature stories in the August issue of Foster Focus Magazine! Click the issue’s cover to read the article:

To order a subscription of Foster Focus Magazine (digital or hard copy), go to!






Where are the Aging Out Positive Deviants?
09.14.17 by Lynn Tonini

Jerry Sternin

To explain the concept of Positive Deviance, let me tell you a story. In the 1990’s, a man named Jerry Sternin went to Vietnam as part of the Save the Children group in order to solve the problem of malnutrition in the country’s small and very poor villages. The Vietnamese government gave the group just six months to get results. Facing such an intimidating time frame, Jerry and his team got started by talking with the mothers in four different villages. They asked the women in each village if there were any children under age three who came from poor families, but were well nourished. In each village, the answer was yes.

After talking with the mothers of the healthier children, they discovered that these mothers went against custom and mixed tiny crabs, shrimp and sweet potato greens into their children’s food, supplementing the traditional fare with extra vitamins and protein. In addition, they found these mothers fed their children when they got diarrhea, which was in opposition to the conventional wisdom that children with diarrhea should not be fed. Finally, these busy mothers made the time to ensure that their children were given several small meals throughout the day, which most of the other busy mothers did not do. Upon discovering these differences, the mothers of the malnourished children soon began imitating the behavior of the mothers of the healthier children – the “positive deviants.”

Eventually the work was expanded to 14 villages, and Jerry found that there were positive deviants in every village who had come up with unique solutions that varied with the resources at hand. These mothers were all willing to share their practices with the other mothers and within two years of initiating this Positive Deviance process, the malnutrition level of children dropped by up to 85% throughout the 14 villages that were involved in their initial six-month project.

Jerry Sternin went on to create an entire movement based upon Positive Deviance. To quote from his website,, “Positive Deviance (PD) is a development approach that is based on the premise that solutions to community problems already exist within the community.”

So let’s apply this concept to aging out of foster care.  Is the challenge of aging out of foster care a community problem?  I think yes. If I am right, it begs the question…where are the aging out positive deviants? Is it possible to find the people and programs that are consistently promoting aging out success, and then then share their secrets with everyone else in the foster care community? Again, I think yes. In fact, finding and sharing the aging out “positive deviant” strategies around the country is one of the things I hope to accomplish with the AOI National Awards Program.

Through an application process, foster parents and organizations will explain the strategies they use to successfully help youth prepare to age out of foster care, or to help support them after they have aged out while they find their place in the world. After the winners are selected, AOI will write up white papers (or “strategy papers” as we’re calling them) that will give the details of each winner’s strategies so that others who work with foster youth throughout the country can learn from them, and possibly even apply them in their own homes or programs.

Do you know any “positive deviants” who help youth age out of foster care and into independence with effective, innovative strategies? If so, please tell them about the AOI National Awards Program being launched in 2018 – we definitely want them to apply when the application window opens on 01.01.18!

AOI Awards Program Covered by The Chronicle of Social Change
July 12, 2017 by Lynn Tonini

The Chronicle of Social Change published an article about the AOI Awards Program! Read it here:

New Award to Honor Those Who Work with Transition-Age Foster Youth

Introducing the Panel of Judges for the New AOI Awards Program!
July 1, 2017 by Lynn Tonini

This month, AOI is sharing with the world the names of the eight individuals – all experienced researchers and/or practitioners in the field of foster care – who have generously volunteered to be the judges for the 2018 AOI Awards Program, the first ever national awards program dedicated to recognizing successful strategies to help prepare youth for aging out of foster care and support youth after they age out of care. The judges for the 2018 AOI Awards Program are:

  • Chris Chmielewski, Former foster youth and Founder/Owner/Editor of Foster Focus Magazine
  • Dr. John DeGarmo, Consultant, international speaker, foster parent, and founder of The Foster Care Institute and Never Too Late, a home for boys in foster care in Georgia
  • Dr. Amy Dworsky, Research Fellow at Chapin Hall at the University of Chicago
  • Dr. Johanna Greeson, Assistant Professor at the University of Pennsylvania’s School of Social Policy & Practice
  • Dr. Judy Havlicek, Associate Professor at the School of Social work at the University of Illinois
  • Susan Punnett, Executive Director of Family & Youth Initiative
  • Tina Raheem, Director of Scholarships and Grants at Foster Care to Success
  • Steve Walsh, Director of the Educational Opportunity Program at California State University, Bakersfield

We are very excited that they have joined the AOI team, but why did they do it? It will take time and energy to review and judge all the applications, and these are all very busy people, so something must have struck them as being important about this awards program.

If you have read the page on the AOI website about the awards program, then you know that the AOI Awards will recognize foster parents and organizations that are implementing strategies that are successfully preparing youth for aging out of foster care or supporting them after they age out. We all know that statistically, foster youth aging out of care face many challenges. Among other difficulties, these youth have (as compared with their peers not in state care) lower high school and college graduation rates, lower employment rates, and more difficulties finding stable housing.

We know that there are foster parents and organizations out there making a difference, minimizing these risks and successfully supporting youth through the transition to adulthood through the services they offer. Besides just publicly applauding these dedicated professionals, we are also going to share the winners’ strategies through papers and webinars so that others in the foster care community can learn from them and apply them in their own homes and organizations. Over the years, the AOI library of award winning strategies will become a significant resource for the foster care community (we think especially for those who are starting new programs and need guidance as to the services and strategies that they want to implement).

So back to the question about why the individuals above have agreed to be judges. Well, here are a couple of quotes from two of them that might shed some light on their motivation:

“I don’t think we fully understand the experience of fostering for older adolescents who developmentally are gaining independence and trying to figure out who they are and who they will become. Recognizing and acknowledging the hard work and commitment of those that do this work is critical to developing understanding of how to do this better than we do.  Foster parents and other organizations have a lot to teach the field. Recognizing their hard work is the first step in this process.”  -Judy Havlicek, Ph.D.

“Today’s youth in foster care face many challenges and difficulties when they age out of the system.  It is important for them to realize that there are, indeed, people who care about them, that there are people who want to help them, and that there are people who are cheering them on to succeed.” -John DeGarmo, Ed.D.

We thank the judges for participating, and we greatly appreciate all the foster parents and organizations that have already expressed an interest in applying for an award. So you are aware, foster parents and organizations may submit applications between January 1, 2018 and February 28, 2018. The judges will review the applications between March 1 and June 30, 2018. Winners will be announced in August, 2018. If you would like to be kept apprised of the development of the awards program and when applications are available online, please go HERE and fill out the form at the bottom of the page.

Please share this page and spread the word!

Lynn Tonini
Aging Out Institute